Groundhog, thanks so much for letting me know about your past experiences with showers, plus your present sexual identity. You are a courageous man to share such with me and the readers. Yes, the locker room was full of wonder and terror for both of us. As for those other men who ogle at nude men in the showers, who knows what their sexuality turned out? Thanks for sharing about your status as a single. Would you say you are asexual? I have known of other men who have declared their asexuality to me. Regardless, I wish you the very best in life, as you continue to enjoy your singleness. Blessings!