Thanks for sharing your perspective -- a perspective shared by most Evangelical Protestants. However, there are many Christians who are not Evangelical. They too love Jesus and value the Bible.

The Bible's condemnation of homosexuality is really a condemnation of gross abuse by men in power over the powerless. You may appreciate this article:

https://medium.com/@mikerosebush/is-homosexuality-a-sin-84569ce8803b